“You build on failure. You use it as a stepping stone. Close the door on the past. You don’t try to forget the mistakes, but you don’t dwell on it. You don’t let it have any of your energy, or any of your time, or any of your space.” ~Johnny Cash
I’m going to try this one more time. I will be successful. I have to be.
Here is a paragraph about a challenge a friend issued me all the way back in May.
Come up with 10 things I can actually accomplish in the next 31 days that will put me closer to goal of simply finding out what I want out of life. The real challenge the real challenge come from the fact that these accomplishments need to be specific, and for all purposes, measurable. No vagueness allowed, which has always been a crutch to avoid striving for accomplishments.
Needless to say, I was unsuccessful. In the almost four months since this was posted, I accomplished 2 or three things on my list. I tried it for May, I tried it for June. I’m not even going to pretend that I tried for July (which I am now dubbing “The Lost Month”). But now that I’m trying to make my life more “found” than “lost”, I figured it was time to try again.
After much soul-searching, here are the 10 accomplishments I came up with for August.
- Make it to the gym at least four times per week. This is down from my usual six, but definitely higher than my embarrassing summer average.
- Find a school for Oliver, one that is based more on what works well for his personality, not based on how convenient or cheap it is.
- Spend more quality time with my children and really get to know them. Each child gets one date day/night with just me per week. I promise, this is for me, not them.
- Read two new books this month.
- Complete four other blog posts this month.
- By the end of the month, be soda free.
- Find a new hobby, that I can do without current friends/family (as in something completely for myself).
- Take one photo everyday to document a moment that makes me smile. This will remind me that I was happy at least once a day this month.
- Create a budget. Sticking with it, will be more of a next month challenge, let’s be real.
- Eat at least one fruit and one vegetable per day. I promise, this is a challenge.
Here’s to August 2013 being a month of accomplishments.