“Everything happens for a reason, but sometimes the reason is because you’re stupid and make bad choices.”
I tend to be over analytical in most aspects of my life. I weigh pros and cons before making decisions. Each choice I engage in tends to be calculated and the safest, most restrained, choice usually wins out. It’s all very responsible.
Until it’s not. Because, let’s face it. There are always those choices that we make that seem to express the sentiment “What the Fuck?” I mean, I know at least for me, I can physically see myself making the wrong choice and I do absolutely nothing to stop it. I somehow assume that THIS TIME things will be different. THIS TIME it will work out for the better rather than for the worst.
And you know what? It never does. I make this decision that I KNOW is the wrong one. I KNOW nothing good will come of it. And I do it anyway. And then do you know what happens? I go into a fit of depressive self loathing.
Why the hell is it that I can get my butt up almost every morning at 4:45 am to run before teaching elementary school children in East Baltimore but can’t stop myself eating that one food, drinking that one drink, sending that one text, saying that one thought? Does it all come down to willpower? Or is it something else?
I really have improved in so many areas over the course of just the few weeks I have been running. I am happier. I have more confidence, I am working towards fixing things that need to be fixed. I love the way my life is going…and yet…I still can’t stop myself from doing certain things I know will hurt me in the long run (FYI: I am not a drug addict, secret cutter, alcoholic, or anything else lifetime made a movie about). What am I missing? What else can I do? I need to make better choices, even if I don’t want to at the time.
End teenage-girl-though-I’m-really-32 rant.