“The beauty is that through disappointment you can gain clarity, and with clarity comes conviction and true originality.” ~Conan O’Brien
Do you have have those moments of clarity, you know, the ones where you are pretty sure you understand everything within the universe in an uncomplicated way?
Very rarely do these creep up on me, but today one did. And what my moment of clarity brought me is the realization that I pretty much suck in all aspects of my world these days. I’m a horrible wife, an exasperated mother, a bored teacher, and an unmotivated runner. All I seem to want to do these days is eat, read, watch TV, and sleep and I rarely get the time to do any of these things.
I realize I’m causing a great disservice to most of the people around me. I know what I should be doing, how I should be reacting, the effort I should be making and yet, I don’t (or I can’t).
Every night I make these grandiose plans and promises to myself that I’m going to do better, be better. I’m not going to reply to every word spoken to me with sarcasm and contempt. I’m not going to yell. I am going to try my hardest. I am going to put forth at least a little effort. I’m going to put down the <insert food here> and get up and MOVE.
And yet, no matter how many times I have made these promises to myself, I have yet to keep them. I wake up in a mood because of sheer exhaustion or because I simply don’t want to go to work and I immediately take it out on those around me. No one is safe. I always want it to be different, but it never is.
But the miracle is that every night I get to make that promise to myself and every morning I get to try and keep it.
Here we go…